I have noticed something after listening to life consultations from over 1,000 people.
People with an aesthetic sense realize their ideals quickly.
People without an aesthetic sense are slow to realize their ideals.
I have reached this conclusion.
Why is that? First of all, an aesthetic sense is something that can never be cultivated without the awareness of "how others see me."
If we quantify this aesthetic sense, someone with a score of 100 will see results overwhelmingly faster than someone with a score of 50.
This applies to everything—not just beauty, but also work, income, family matters, and private concerns.
Aesthetic sense includes your appearance, belongings, hair color, clothing, behavior, and body shape.
It also shows up in your Zoom background, the inside of your bag, and your entryway.
Without an aesthetic sense, things fall apart completely.
Why? Because humans can "easily become shabby."
This is true for any beautiful person. If you lose your aesthetic sense and lose that sense of tension, you can easily become shabby.
Hair can quickly become dry and frizzy.
Skin can become oily.
If you eat as much as you want, you'll gain weight quickly.
If you don't declutter, things will overflow and even your entryway will get dirty.
That's why I think the first step of "aesthetic sense" is to eliminate "shabbiness."
Don't let yourself become shabby, even though it's easy to do so.
However, people whose ideals don't come true are "accepting their own shabbiness."
...The other day, I met someone who had been receiving counseling for 10 years.
She had gone from one counselor to another, lamenting, "I'm always unhappy" and "People around me are cold."
But she had patchy gray hair dye and had left discolored teeth untreated.
The person: "I want to be happy! What should I do?"
EMU: "First, let's tidy up your appearance. This is because your appearance might be influencing things. Consider the possibility that you aren't a victim, but rather the one 'offending' first. I think the reactions of those around you will change just by dyeing your hair beautifully and getting your teeth cleaned."
(I didn't say it quite so bluntly, but that's roughly what I said.)
After that, she dyed her hair beautifully and fixed her teeth.
Then, just by doing that:
"People around me told me I've become beautiful!"
"The old man next door, who was always cold, has become kinder than before!"
She said.
You might think:
"I don't need to be beautiful."
"It's a waste of money to spend on such things."
But what if becoming beautiful accelerates the realization of your ideals?
The power of appearance is terrifying.
Other people's attitudes, the way they look at you, the way they talk, the chances you are given, and the number of proposals you receive will clearly change.
Beautiful people attract money, opportunities, proposals, and connections.
This isn't spiritual; it's because the people around them think, "I want to give this to this person."
God doesn't prepare opportunities for you.
People prepare opportunities for you.
In that case, you should definitely aim for "social appeal."
Being liked and loved by people.
This will speed up the realization of your ideals.
The simplest way to do that is to eliminate shabbiness and acquire an aesthetic sense.
If you have an aesthetic sense, people will become your allies, your collaborators will increase, and they will help you when you are in trouble. Do not neglect people. When your ideals come true, there is always the presence of people somewhere.
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