In this world, there are women who are easily targeted by men who commit moral harassment. They don't necessarily target "weak women." In fact, it is overwhelmingly more common for them to target "reliable women." The characteristics of such women are:
- Hardworking
- Strong sense of responsibility
- Caring
These are women often referred to as having an "eldest daughter temperament."
Moral harassment men prefer reliable women and have a romantic pattern of slipping into their lives while pretending to be someone they're not.
Reliable women have been hard workers since childhood.
Because they have a strong sense of responsibility, they don't give up halfway even if they encounter difficulties. They try to manage until the end, even if it's somewhat painful.
As a result, in romance, they tend to feel like "I'm the only one working hard..."
That seriousness and perseverance are convenient for moral harassment men.
- Because she's hardworking, she'll adapt to me.
- Because she's caring, she'll take care of me.
- Because she has a strong sense of responsibility, she won't leave me easily.
That's why they are easy to be with.
He chose you not because "you are weak," but because "he wanted to parasitize your reliable nature."
It's actually the moral harassment man who is truly weak.
However, women with an "anxious" attachment style tend to be unable to leave moral harassment men.
She easily develops deep emotional attachments once she likes someone.
It's not widely known, but "developing an emotional attachment" is actually a "type of state of dependency."
- He is actually a kind person.
- It would be pitiful if I abandoned him.
- He would be lonely without me.
Because they think this way, they remain unable to give up on the moral harassment man.
Instead, they take on all of his weaknesses and flaws, which often makes them suffer.
To escape such a painful love, what's needed isn't a simple method like "give up on him right now."
What's truly important is, first and foremost, "healing the dependency on him."
In other words, "healing the anxious heart" was the key.
If this sounds familiar, please check the 19-point checklist for the anxious type. It's free 👇
(Reference Article)
What are the characteristics and romantic tendencies of anxious women?
There is a 19-characteristic checklist at the beginning.
Read by over 500 people every week.
https://note.com/loveshare/n/ncec6f05f7ea4
If you want to break free from dependency and obsession, start by noticing the "real problem sleeping in your deep consciousness."
PS
On X, I deliver a lot of knowledge about male psychology and the anxious type.
Followed by over 600 people last month 👇
