Opening with bad examples
Still following male influencers for this kind of weak copywriting? 🤣🤣
"Deeply affectionate and loyal, strong desire for control, gives you full emotional value."
Is this finding a partner or slapping a factory label on yourself?
Top-tier beauties can't even read all their DMs, so how could they reply to you? "Dating DD" just makes your desperation obvious.
Don't mistake getting DMs for having charm. The ones coming in are basically "panjie" (scammers) or factory girls.
This post is only about practical steps:
- How to build your homepage
- Screening
- How to set up dates once chatting starts.
Also, I'll cover a "dark art" at the end; if you like quick results, go straight to that.
PART 1: Open Your Screen First, Let Others Find You
Don't always think about squeezing into girls' DMs. Post your strengths first so she has a chance to see you. If you have a good face, show it; if you have a nice voice, post singing videos. Don't just stare at your disadvantages.
Fun fact: The gender ratio on Xiaohongshu is 2:8.
Teaching demonstration
Non-face-showing tactics
Here are tactics for both showing and not showing your face; choose for yourself. With this many comments, your DMs are already exploding; you should understand how to post by now.
Successful men only select concubines in DMs; laborers beg for mates in DMs.
PART 2: Finding Activity Partners
Beauties on Xiaohongshu post photos to get ad deals; those who post with purpose have needs.
Don't scroll through Xiaohongshu looking for beauties; find your own interest communities and activity partners.
- Swimming, gaming, tennis, billiards—whatever you like, start there. Look based on your hobbies first.
Finding an activity partner is the fastest way to meet in person; you don't need to invent a reason to meet.
For example: Search for "Valorant partner."
You wanted to play anyway, and she lacks a partner, so you have something to talk about and a reason to meet. It's much more natural than randomly throwing out "Hey beauty, let's get to know each other." The women found here will also be higher quality. As long as your homepage has photos, you'll basically get noticed.
Similarly, you can post too, e.g., post a match record saying "Looking for Valorant partner."
Think about it yourself; this method brings in mature female voices and cute girl voices.
Please manage your self-media well!!
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PART 3: She Comes to You, How to Chat?
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① Wait for her to initiate topics.
Someone commenting or DMing doesn't mean you must reply immediately. If you can't speak well, speak less. Don't tell her your whole life story when she only asked one question.
Appropriate pretentiousness is okay; being pretentious isn't bragging. Girls hate braggarts.
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② Probe her type
Don't make it all you asking, you talking, you finding topics. Follow what she says, give her chances to talk more and ask you questions.
Don't start with dirty talk unless she does. Also, don't be overly polite; maintain steady progression toward ambiguity. Only continue if she's willing to chat.
③ Add WeChat ASAP
Add WeChat quickly; no one stays glued to Xiaohongshu checking messages. If things feel right within ten sentences, ask for WeChat.
You already share common interests; the goal of adding WeChat is to schedule a meeting.
Don't linger in DMs forever. If you click, move the online topic to reality.
Dark Art for Finding Top Beauties: Start with Companion Photography.
Bring your iPhone. First, look for cases online, learn composition and angles, then search "City Name + Companion Photography" to see who is looking for photographers.
Girls who love taking photos and dress up nicely can be found here. While others are still figuring out how to ask her to dinner, you already have a specific reason to meet.
Companion Photography Practical SOP
How to book companion photography: Two scenarios
First, check her homepage to see what she wants to shoot and if she mentioned a budget. Family background is just a clue; focus on her actual needs.
① College students wanting to save budget
Say:
"I've been practicing photography recently and want to build a portfolio. I can help you take photos for free once."
② Those with budgets clearly looking for paid companion photography
Just quote normal prices. Charge what you should; don't offer free services just because someone is pretty—it actually raises their guard.
After shooting, if the chat goes well and both parties are willing, grab a meal together.
If you're high EQ, pay the bill casually. You meet the person and make money too.
Stop being a laborer. Practicing my methodology can even teach you how to take money from top beauties' pockets.
For those using the online tactics, I'll show how to chat after adding WeChat, how partners become lovers, and how to progress relationships after meeting.
Like this post. If likes exceed 1000, I'll grind out the next episode.
I am Yooee (Love Godmother Edition), I tell jokes but also want to produce deep content.
I'll continue sharing AI businesses I've tried and teach dating. Let's make money together and date together.
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