There are women in this world who quietly master "words that make men conscious of them."
However, if you suddenly throw out strong words like "Please ask me out" or "I'm interested in you" just because you want them to notice you, they'll likely just be put off.
That's why the key is to take it step-by-step and steadily draw their heart closer.
This time, I'll introduce 10 doting words while explaining the "method to draw the heart closer and shorten the distance" in three steps!
① Words that see the person as an individual
Women who successfully shorten the distance look closely at "that person as an individual" and mention it.
Relationships before romance begins are often recognized by "attributes," "roles," and "titles," such as company colleagues, clients, friends, or people met on apps.
When trying to take a step forward from there, people often enter small talk like "What are your hobbies?" or "What club were you in during school?" but this is ultimately just an "attribute introduction" of "What kind of person are you?"
We tend to feel like we've judged someone based on their attributes.
If they were in the soccer club, they must be active; if they like anime, they must be an otaku; if they are in sales, they must be social...
While this might be good as a conversation starter, it's hard to deepen the connection.
Women who are good at capturing hearts go more directly for the person's heart.
In other words, they look at the deeper "individual" rather than just attributes.
For example:
- "Actually, you have a side like [X], don't you?"
- "By the way, you liked [X], right?"
- "You seemed like [X], but you're surprisingly [Y]."
What these have in common is that they look closely at "the person's own inner self."
When this is done, a relationship that was just "this kind of person I met here" suddenly becomes "individual" vs. "individual."
Women who easily develop romantic relationships are good at this first step of bringing it to an individual level.
They are good at it, and they are fast.
They drop these words casually to suddenly close the distance.
② Words that treat the person as special
If you only look at them as an individual, you might end up just being "good friends."
That's why creating a sense of specialness is important.
People are influenced more than they think by "how the other person thinks of them."
And that determines the "degree of affection you direct toward the other person" and the sense of distance.
When someone feels, "Maybe for this person, I'm not in the same category as everyone else, but in a separate one," they become more conscious of the other person.
In the first place, romantic feelings are born when you feel "special" among "one of the many."
People can't help but start viewing someone as special if that person treats them as special.
- "You're a bit different from other people."
- "I've never told this to anyone else, but..."
- "I might have never met someone like you before."
These words serve as an appeal that you are looking at them in a special light.
People aren't very used to being praised in this way.
It's natural, because there aren't many people who are exceptionally outstanding or exceptionally special.
So, when told something rare like this, a sense of surprise arises along with the feeling, "This person who found such rarity in me is also rare; they must be a special person."
People want to find value in those who evaluate them highly.
(Because by doing so, they can feel that the evaluation is legitimate and valuable.)
Women who use this special treatment well find it easy to capture a man's heart.
③ Words that increase the person's sense of self-importance
Women who are loved increase the other person's sense of self-importance... that is, the feeling that "I am an important person."
Everyone wants to believe they are an important existence and wants others to understand their importance.
Everyone wants to be thought of as a "precious person" or someone "I'd be in trouble without."
There is nothing happier than having your existence appreciated.
This is the same for men.
If there is a woman who tickles that spot, they can't leave her.
For example:
- "I feel like I can talk about anything with you."
- "I want to hear more of your stories."
- "I'm so glad I met you."
- "I'm really glad you were here."
If told these things, they'll want to see you again immediately and will try to be useful to you, thinking, "I want this person to recognize my importance even more."
While doing so, they start thinking, "Wait, why do I feel so good when I meet this girl? Why does my self-esteem go up? Why am I trying so hard for her?" and this leads to dependence and obsession.
However, with just these three items, it's still a bit weak to pull them into a romance.
There is one more thing you absolutely must do on top of this.
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14 Doting Words Used by Loved Women That Men Suddenly Become Conscious Of
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